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Road to Tokyo: My Dream is Our Dream

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Dear Reader,

You know by now the 2020 Olympic Games scheduled for Tokyo, Japan, this summer have been postponed over the growing concerns of the global pandemic. They have been rescheduled with opening ceremonies on July 23, 2021 and the closing ceremonies on August 8, 2021. The Paralympics will be held August 24 through September 5, 2021. The last time the summer Olympic Games were held in Tokyo was October 4-21, 1964. In Roy Tomizawa’s book entitled: “1964: The Greatest Year in the History of Japan”, Roy Tomizawa portrays how the 1964 Olympics in Tokyo symbolized Japan’s miraculous rise from the ashes. The youth of Japan in 1964 had their own theme. It included all youth born in Japan in the hour Hiroshima died (August 6, 1945 when the first atomic bomb fell on humanity) and included all youth born since. Their theme was ‘The World As One’. The Tokyo 2020 Olympics held in Tokyo July 23 – August 8, 2021 will play a major part in bringing the nations of the world together, seeing “The World As One.” My personal theme of the Olympic Games is global unity through the dignity, character and beauty of global diversity… Seeing the World as One. But more importantly, it is the future of humankind. We are all related.

 

Road to Tokyo

It’s a cool Monday morning, July 13, 1964. I am at the local bank in Fallbrook, California. Fallbrook borders the eastern boundary of Camp Pendleton.

The land that comprises Fallbrook and Camp Pendleton used to be the sacred lands of the Luiseno and Pachanga tribal nations. Perhaps the energy I often feel during my long runs is the energy of their ancestors.

The banker, a very cordial man in his late 40’s, is completing the loan process for $800.00. Getting a loan for Patricia’s expenses to the Olympics has me ecstatic and frightened at the same time. Ecstatic because the Olympics have been our dream since we first met. Frightened because my experiences of going low blood sugar is a dangerous health issue I face daily. Going low creates depression, doubt, confusion, anger and yes, a lot of fear! After going low today during my morning workout, my thoughts are, “Is it wise to actually get this loan today, before I am even on the US Olympic team?”

He hands me the check, we shake hands, I thank him, and he says “Good luck, Lieutenant.”

As Patricia and I begin to relax for the evening, I show her the check. She looks at me with such exuberance and says, “It’s really going to happen! You always said we will both go to the Olympics.” It’s incredible that we both feel the same way — we have to be together in Tokyo for your 10,000 meter race!

We hug as she whispers, “Billy, this is so right. Also, we’re running out of time to secure the lodging arrangements we want.”

I nod in agreement as my thoughts caution me, “What happens the next time I experience going low blood sugar?”

The night is extremely restless for me; fighting fear and doubt inside while trying to nurture belief and confidence in our dream.

As the early morning sun rays begin to reflect their images of nature, they also reflect a more accurate image of my lack of confidence. Perhaps it is premature getting this loan before I make the US Olympic team.

It’s 9:00am Tuesday morning, July 14. I am back at the bank in Fallbrook. The banker is surprised having the check returned to him. My comments are simply, “It was premature to make the loan and we may not need it.”

Arriving home is challenging. Is there a proper way to inform Patricia I took the check back to the bank without consulting her? She greets me with an appreciative smile and a kiss. Excitedly, Patricia tells me she and Mary Lou made a toast celebrating their trip to the Tokyo Olympics. Patricia was still very much in a celebratory mood.

Explaining my actions is embarrassing and heartbreaking. Patricia is devastated. Seeing disappointment in her eyes is a pain I never want to feel again.

She understands my fear of being hypoglycemic and borderline type 2 diabetic. She seems to understand the depression, doubt, and confusion it creates. She even agrees with my concerns of having to borrow the money for her to attend the Olympics.

We agree to think about what we have discussed and then tomorrow morning address any questions we have. Patricia says she probably would not have any more questions, and compassionately added that she’s comfortable with me making the final decision. However, her eyes totally convey another story in the form of two penetrating questions — and a powerfully unspoken message.

One. Billy, am I not going to the Olympics?

Two. Aren’t we a team?

Three. You need me there to win.

It’s 6:00 am July 15, 1964 as I start on a 20 mile run. There is something magical about running early in the morning. As my footprints are being laid upon the earth I feel a gentleness. Looking around and observing the beauty of nature is a sense of sacredness.

That’s the frame of mind I am in at the moment. It’s a perfect time to address my thoughts. I don’t know if I am looking for answers or just a better understanding of why the fear of going low blood sugar again is so dominating. My thoughts begin to flow. It’s like having a verbal conversation with myself.

During my races, will it always be a mystery to me if I am going to go hypoglycemic? The recommended diets and time to eat before races don’t seem to help or prevent going low.

I am embarrassed and angered when coaches, spectators, trainers and yes, doctors, say my health issues are just psychological because of my heritage. Finally, I find the strength to ask myself what Patricia thinks when I drop out of a race. I don’t want to embarrass her if I go low at the Olympic Games.

And what happens if I don’t go low in Tokyo and find myself in a position to win? Do I need Patricia with me at that moment? My thoughts flow like a gentle, hypnotic breeze.

It’s not my journey; it’s our journey. It’s not my destiny “win or lose”; it’s our destiny. I feel like my body, mind and soul are drawing physical, mental and spiritual strength from each footprint being laid upon mother earth.

It becomes clear once again how my Olympic quest was born. I needed a dream to heal a broken soul. The Olympics became the catalyst to heal and the virtues and values of my culture, traditions, and spirituality became the pillars of my journey. The Olympics are the ideal catalyst for me to pursue my dream. My dream is now our dream and it’s the journey, not the destination, that empowers us.

It’s now 9:45am, July 15, and I am back at the bank in Fallbrook. The banker doesn’t know whether to laugh or cry. Instead, he says, “How can I help you, Lieutenant?”

I say, “How about a loan for $800.00?” He looks amused and responds, “For your wife to go to Tokyo because you plan on making the Olympic team, correct?” My response is yes, in two events.

Appearing very sympathetic, he comments, “We can’t loan you $800.00 on an assumption.”

I tell him I can’t go home without $800.00 and my assumption.

He writes a new check and says, “Don’t disappoint her, marine!”

We celebrate Patricia’s going to the Olympic Games with dinner at the officers’ club. She tells me Mary Lou is excited to have her Olympic roommate back. We both laugh.

As dinner comes to a close, Patricia quietly says vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. I smile and think “Adapt and overcome.”

It is July 20, 1964. Patricia and I are on our way to Culver City, California. Tomorrow, the 21st, is the US Olympic Team marathon qualifying race. My goal is to make the US Olympic Team in the marathon tomorrow and the 10,000 meters in September.

I glance at Patricia and admire her beauty. Feeling a bit more mature, and with my newfound peace of mind, I say, “I am back in the dream!”

See you next month!

Billy

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